Hello @gonner!
Welcome to Hive. I thinks some souls are getting through hard things for a reason. Maybe the payment on the previous/next life or maybe avoiding a bigger trouble for this one, choose your medicine. I am glad you found your way around here.
I invite you to explore other communities you might like that are part of the OCD Communities Incubation Program. Check out all the communities, read their rules and post in the one that fits your content.
I wish you success on Hive.
@bemier.