When Helping Becomes A Hassle, My Biggest Mistake Last Week.

Hello lovely students and alumni, it's so awesome hosting you guys today and for this lovely week I would be sharing with us my biggest mistake last week, stay tuned as you read through.

Omoh as they say we should go home and stay for three months plus extra weeks before coming back, everybody decided to get themselves engaged atleast to raise up some funds for school but for me I didn't just rush to get a job I decided to rest first for some weeks before traveling to visit a relative and then I came back home this November after my relaxation to see if I could work for a month plus before going back to school so I couldn't sit idle like that.

That was where my tragedy started, last week was my first full week at work and guess what I settled for? a provision shop, I didn't dropped working on Hive just because I got a paying job instead I decided to merge the both so as to add to my income, it was at this point I knew I was in for premium stress plus this work is not for the faint hearted, the salary itself is unimaginable like earning 10k per month is not what I imagined because normally I earn more than that working online, I wished I could bring up an excuse and stop working but no experience like this is a waste, sometimes we need to pass through them for a reason, but omoh it hasn't been easy going to work by 8am coming back past 7pm and trying to make a post after work or during sales in the shop.

You might not see it as a mistake but it's to me, I thought it was something I could handle but after everyday sales I come back with body pains all Over and not just that, I decided to start this work last week to help an uncle during this festival season where work would be much on them since he has helped me in some ways while I was about to resume school beginning of this year so I thought it was wise to ask if I could come and help out but this wiseness of mine is now looking unwise to me even though my Dad said I should just work there because it's a training, first day after work which is last week Monday my voice had almost gone that I struggled to talk loud and then the body pains so I said to myself I would adjust to it.

My lessons from this is that I should not always put others first before myself because I might lose myself in the process just trying to Please others, and if I had the chance I would have just gone to the man's house to greet him and his family with a little gifts in my hands after which I would leave everything like that without mentioning the fact that I want to come and help out in the shop. Well this decision of mine that I consider a big mistake affected alot starting from my limiting my time here on Hive, to my personal time where I no longer have time for myself until on Sunday which is never enough for me, to making me have limited time with family and friends to many other things but what has been keeping me going is the fact that December is not far again.

My brothers and sisters try to put yourself first oooh en get why, thank you for your time and I hope it was well spent, peace out ✌️.

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