This feels sad. A year ago, I was dancing at my wedding happily. I got high on love and dreamed of a better life forever with my partner. But it seems now I'm facing a lot of twists.
Right now I've fallen out of love with my spouse. It is not a dramatic fight, or nothing big has happened, but it was just the love that quietly faded away.
In my country, Nigeria, where marriage is like a big deal, and there's so much family expectations, and those family expectations are very loud, it may feel like a very high crisis.
I cannot feel love anymore. So my first reaction was shock, like I tried, but the sadness in me still supersedes. I wonder if I did make a mistake, or it was because of the pressure that I rushed into this marriage. But I'm not the one to let it end in tears.
The next step is to just face the truth and the facts with the conversation with my partner. Maybe sometime I will sit with my partner, share my heart, and listen to their own suggestion. I will tell my spouse how I feel. Maybe we were not spending time with each other. Or we were just busy with our work. Not having time to spend with each other, to talk about how we want our future to be, and how to run the family.
So I will take this situation as a creative one.
I will plan ways to reconnect back. Like maybe we should go on a date as if we were just meeting. Or just write them a letter. Or just do something new together. I'm also trying to seek advice too from my mentors and my counselors who will be successful
to build their business and marriage at the same time. Or if they need be.
Craft or areas of life takes work also sometimes things can seem as if it's not going well. But falling out of love is just something of like a rough draft not the end of everything or not should not be the end of your marriage if you are feeling stuck or in a place in a relationship please.
Don't give up just be honest to yourself, be sincere to yourself and also let your partner share their thoughts and see what is the issue. Just one small gesture. Just one step to understanding each other can save a lot of damages.
You don't have to quit your mind because you fell out of love with your partner. You should be ready to rebuild your love story back again and this time it should be more exciting and more peaceful than the former. You can rewrite your story just grab the pen and start today now and act accordingly.
