Little Things: My Top 3 Picks For A Perfect Day

We all have different definitions of the word “perfect,” each according to our taste and style. For some, a perfect day is when everything goes smoothly—no unnecessary drama, no unforeseen circumstances that could mess with their mental health, just a pure and steady flow of joy, good vibes, and energy. For others, a perfect day is a stress-free day—when nothing urgent gets in your way and you don’t have to struggle with an endless list of chores; just you and your favorite things. There are also people who find perfection in little wins; achieving a goal, ticking a task, or finally doing something they have been sidelining for ages. There’s no universally accepted definition of a “perfect day”. As long as it ticks your boxes then it could pass for a perfect day in your dictionary.

For you, what is your definition of a perfect day? What are the things that have to be in place before a day can be tagged “perfect.” Maybe it is a day with your favorite person, watching Netflix shows and munching on snacks. Maybe it is starting indoors alone with your phone, binge-watching your favorite show with no calls, or no one coming to disturb you. What makes a perfect day for you? Over the years, I have come to realize something worth taking note of; no day ever feels perfect if you’re expecting something grand. You might end up disappointed, withdrawing yourself to a little corner with a sad and soggy face if you’re expecting something grand. I’ve realized that finding joy in small and little things and tagging them “perfect” is a better approach.

A good meal, particularly when I prepare it myself, is one thing that can make my day perfect. I love it when, on a bright morning, when the weather is cool and the air is calm and chilly, I go out to get food supplies. I don’t remember the last time I had fried plantain, but I’m pretty sure it’d fit in and make a day perfect for me. If I had to schedule a day to be called perfect. I’d go out to the nearest supermarket, and buy a bunch of plantains that are not too soft and not too hard—I have been in love with plantain for years, and I know that the ones in between are perfect. Then, I’d buy fried fish to make stew. In my street, there’s a woman who sells fried fish. I’d buy an extra one so I can eat it on my way back. Getting home, I’d head straight to the kitchen and prepare rice, stew, fish, and fried plantain. What’s a good day without good food?

Moving on, another thing that needs to be in place for a day to be perfect for me is good anime. I love to watch anime (or anything really) while eating. It is a habit I have formed since I was young, and it has grown to become a part of me. My perfect day would continue after preparing the food. I’d serve myself and sit at my table while I watch anime. Not just any anime, but one that I have never seen before, and one that grabs my attention in the first episode. One spoon after the other, I enjoy the food till it finishes. Then, after eating, I sluggishly roll onto my bed to continue watching anime till my eyes get red and sleepy.

Lastly, another thing that needs to be in place for a day to be perfect is a new book or reels – never both, just one. It would be nice to spend the evening scrolling through reels on Instagram or reading a brand-new book. These three things aren't grand and may not seem fit to call "perfect," but they would surely make me happy.

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