Good evening @minismallholding, Not forgiving is like a pending, like an unpleasant task that you have to do, but you postpone it again and again so you fail to turn the page and go through life lighter, because you have to see how freeing forgiveness, if we get to see has nothing to do with the other, it is a matter only yours and that mistreats only you.
I think that if we understood how liberating it is we would do it more easily and as quickly as possible, because when we do, it is when we begin to heal.

A deep topic to expand on. Greetings. 😊