Thank you for lovely response. I'm glad it reached you in a positive way.

It is so true, when we are sick we can choose to respond positively or negatively with constant complaints that also eventually drive people away from us. I saw this contrast in two sisters who had rheumatoid arthritis. The one with the worst case was actually often very positive in her approach to life and did as much as she could. The other was always complaining, became inactive and overweight which caused her other problems as well.