Oh yes! I so resonate with this as it's the topic I'm wrestling with now and has been for a while. It's a difficult decision to make, leaving home behind, but as you say, unfortunately Romania gives you so many reasons to do so. Personally, I would head towards the southern countries, like Spain. But it's probably go and come back to visit for me.
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Halelujah! You as a fellow romanian can definetely understand the frustrations and possible mental health issues arising from living in such a system. No matter how much I try I just can't find a way to fit in here, I felt so much more at home in Denmark than I feel now in here. I guess it depends on people and how they imagine a better life for a future family. I will ponder and make the decision with the idea that I make a better choice than previous generations who had little options in comparison to us
You seem to think things through, so I'm sure whatever decision you reach will be the right one. And even if not, it's never too late to go back or set out later. Life has a way of changing things around, doesn't it? :)
But I would say, if you don't feel like you fit in and have tried and tried, maybe it's not just a bizarre occurrence. Maybe it's some part of the universe or God saying maybe this place isn't for you. I think so, anyway.
Yup I think about it thoroughly and I turn my idea on all sides to make sure that I look at the problem from all angles.
I do believe in divine alignment and that God always paves the right path for each of us. If you were to ask me 10 years ago about the place where I would go and the stuff I would do....I would have never thought of what actually happened. So maybe it is a mix of divine and intention as we can't rely solely on divinity without an actual plan of action and a definite intention.
Who knows...but no matter what I pick I do know one thing: it is always better to make a choice and have that turn out wrong rather than to have never tried anything new at all. As much as we hear this old cliché that tells us that with age going up you have to settle, I dare to believe that any age is good for a change as we only live once. And boy do the regrets of the things undone make plenty of people wish they had the courage to just...do it.
Oh yes <3 I agree - what you say about settling down resonated with me a great deal. I think we're tempted to fall into that thinking sometimes, especially when we see peers settling down, we think come on, it must be my turn sometime (As in I owe it to the world to do so). But I don't think you should settle just because. Certainly not if you don't even think it's your place to do so there. Best of luck, lovely~ <3
Peer pressure is something that has to be avoided by all means. We have all gone through this, especially if you are over 30 . Screw that as everybody has their own path to forge:)