I like how you tried to cover the topic from all aspects. I will just add a question to this topic:
What is the psychological effect can this have?
It is believed that when someone leaves their own country with their own well, (that they were calling home). They cannot return to it and see it the same way as they left.
I am not sure about how true that is. But, what do you think?
Interesting question. I will answer from my personal perspective and experience. I have found that after a while in a foreign country one can develop a sort of nostalgia . I remember missing the most my local cuisine and being quite a foodie it was a challenge. But then I thought to myself: good local food is not of a enough reason to want to stay in your country of origin where safety is a huge issue. So I think that this phenomenon of missing some sprinkles of the good things we liked can turn into sadness if a reality check treatment is not swiftly applied lol. It is like in history, when people who have gone through times of ordeal idealize them decades later , hanging on on those sprinkles of good. What is your take on this and,if I may ask, do you like where you live and why?
Thank you.. My only perspective was to cover as much as possible of this. Since, you are sharing something personal here. But, I was glad to read "Interesting question".
I have not had that experience before. I traveled as a tourist and came back. Never tried this before. So, I know that others might experienced this and could say something personal about it. But, I know that this is the sort of thing that is not comparable.
What I mean by that is, one could choose to be somewhere else at times. But, cannot really tell if he stayed in his place for the same amount of time, it would be better for him (as no one can be in two different places at the same time).
There is a nice saying about it, it goes something like this: "We might not be able to tell if our choice was the best one. But, we need to work on making it a right one".
It sounds like it is an approach that would also work in relationships as there is no possible way to know if you have chosen the right one but for sure you'll work your ass off to make it a right one:)) Thank you for your valuable insights:)
Valuable insights?
Thank you, I appreciate it. But, I am not taking credit for that as it is something that I came across.
And yes, you are absolutely right with the way you re-phrase that. It is exactly what I was trying to say.