I would only give advice to myself, because only I know what is best for me, me or my other self.
If I could go back, if I could travel back in time, if I could have a way to get to myself, but 31 years ago, I would not try to avoid living what I have experienced, because I have learned a lot from them. Every experience leads to a better learning of life and with it to improve and evolve and I mean the inner evolution of the soul.
But if I could really do it, if I could see myself at 15 years old, I would say to myself: ‘To change your life, you must change first:
To change your life, you must first change within, all change is first generated within yourself, you must change your thoughts, your words and therefore your actions.
The answers, all the answers that you are looking for and that are many, are and always were within you, look deeper, because by healing the inside your life will change radically. And not only your life, but the environment is modified depending on your vibration, you will attract what you are, what you think, what you say and what you do, change your mind and change your world. Not the world of others, but yours.
Understand that not everything that happens to you is your fault, but that there are many things that you must unlearn and that is the most difficult part of the path, it is more difficult than learning something new, because you must uproot things that are ancestrally rooted, mental programmes that come from your tree. You have to know what they are in order to change them so you can change your mind and be yourself.
You have to know that everything in life is created from thought and imagination coupled with emotion, that emotion that you always have in your heart, because you are purely emotional, that creates things. Pay attention to those emotions, to your thoughts, because they will be in the future your reality, create your reality as you like and not as you were programmed. You came here to be happy and to live a full life, get rid of those false beliefs now and don't wait a minute longer, start now and you will have more than fifteen years head start.
Love nature, live it in your heart, because it is nature that will help you connect with what really matters, yourself. To get inside you must forget the world and there will be everything that is really important.
Always follow your intuition, because it is your guide, in the future things will happen to you, you will see things and not with human eyes, which may scare you, but intuition will always guide you on the right path, the head betrays, the heart never. Learn to follow your heart and you will be fine.
Life is wonderful, I know what you are going through, but everything happens in life, the good and the bad, because the universe is cyclical, it works in rhythms and everything happens. Learn that like attracts like because like energies vibrate together and attract. Stay away from those who use you, because that is not valuing you. Stay away from those who make you feel bad, because you are not loving yourself in that way, if you don't love yourself, no one can love you nor can you give love. You only give what you are and receive what you give.
I must go now... but remember this phrase that sums up what I have told you: "What we achieve inwardly will change the outer reality" - Plutarch.
That's what I would say to myself if I went back, I would say it with a lot of emotion and tears in my eyes, I know because I've said it to myself right now. Thank you @galenkp for these weekend themes. These two I chose have been very special.
Thank you all so much for reading me today, I wish you a great weekend. See you soon.
Amonet.
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Hi @avdesing, I don't know if I agree completely, I think partly yes. My experience tells me that the journey, the important one is the inside, and that the outside matters little (as long as you have a basic standard of living to live).
My external reality has changed little in recent years, if anything it has improved somewhat, but it is not what has influenced me to feel better now. I think that being apart from external validation is the main reason why I can now say that I am fine.
And let's go with love, when you value yourself in a positive way you don't need the valuation of others, you are less manipulable and freer. I'm going to be mean, I think this provokes some envy to the "little man" that Reich talked about.
The subject gives for much, but it can be synthesized in that photo you have chosen so well.
A big hug.
That's why I would tell that 15-year-old girl that she was not free...
From the outside, I don't mean wealth in the abstract, but life in general. My life has changed radically in the last few years, because I have changed inside and I am still in the process. Thank you very much and have a nice Saturday!
I had that photo a long time ago, I took it in a shop, but the post didn't appear... today it does.
We are all in process, life is a continuous learning process.
Going back to the outside, it's not that I don't give it importance, I do. That's why I'm glad to see you growing as a creator and how you are valued.
But, going back to your text and to that image kept for a while, I think that we can't enjoy the outside if we are not well inside.
I don't see how anyone can value what they have, be it material wealth or friends, if they don't feel self-love.
Very very true that last one... it is that it does not value the spiritual but the things... that is not of the soul...
Eres un encanto, See you tomorrow 👋😃
See you tomorrow! Chaooo😁
Chao 👋
More than once I have said that if I had known these things before... my life would be different today. Because in a few months and with a few adjustments I have seen drastic changes all around me.
It's a beautiful path and it only takes a few questions when someone appears in your life or when you see patterns repeating themselves.
What is this trying to make me see? What do I have to change inside me?
And when you do, the right people and the right situations come along too.
In my post I said it... people are always in the middle of the noise with no time to listen to themselves.
Eso dije.
Thank you for this. Hopefully many people who will read you will be able to see it.
Everyone goes through life for a reason, and everything happens for a reason, but inner change is necessary to move forward. To move forward free without burdens, without backpacks, free. I love your comment!💗
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Good morning, dear friend @avdesing
What you say is very true; learning something new is much easier than changing what you've already learned.
There's no doubt that change is possible without changing the inside.
Thank you so much, dear friend, for sharing these thoughtful words.
Have a great weekend.
Just changing one changes the world, that's how it works. Thank you always for your presence and words.🤗
Good morning, Amonet.
I'm also convinced that nature is very important for relaxing and finding our inner selves. It's essential for making important changes.
Have a beautiful afternoon, happy Saturday.
Thank you so so much @miprimerconcurso 💗
When you talk about changing, then it has to come from.within first which is very very important
As outside is inside and vice versa, we must always start with ourselves, even if it is not an easy task. Thank you!
I really felt the depth in your words about inner change being the first step towards transforming your life
The reminder that we attract what we think, feel and believe is so important and your message about unlearning old patterns really stood out
I am glad to have conveyed the same. Thank you very much!
BEAUTIFUL REFLECTION AV
Waoooo returned 30 years I would change some things. But without a doubt I would leave many more. Greetings and I get a beautiful reflection of life
Am I guessing right that you are about 42 years old? All of life is a school. We get our Avatars but not our mind. The mind has existed for ages, God knows how long? When I was little about 4-5 I thought that I had always existed and would exist. Here is the truth. I also believe that we are in a simulation of many simulations. In the programmed simulation there are all the toys to be able to grow, or degenerate. We may go from one world to the other... and collect ourselves... The experiences make us stronger in our mind.
If I were to travel back in time I would not want to change anything, even if it hurt terribly, on the other hand I would like to see the whole story up to now, as a spectator of one's own choices.
Oh that is a big topic, you fly like a butterfly from flower to flower.
I like your thoughts!
I'm 46 years old, you almost got it right! The mind is the universal consciousness that divides and enters into human bodies to live experiences, when the body dies the consciousness returns to the source, that is to say we have a quantum double that without it we would not be alive, it is the source itself and it is everyone, we are all one... it is a beautiful subject, I have been passionate about it for many years. How nice to find someone who speaks the same language...thank you!
Changing our mentality and attitude are fundamental for our wellbeing, if we are well on the inside it will be reflected on the outside and in our way of seeing and assuming life.
It is the starting point, from the inside. Thank you very much!🤗
Thank you so much @indiaunited and @steemflow!!🤗