Fear can’t stem from so many things. We have fears that come naturally and fear that arises from traumatic experiences. Yesterday, I friend of mine was talking about how she is not own to copy in an exam out of fear of being given a wrong answer and this stemmed from an experience she had way back in primary school. I have my fears and just like me , you also have yours.
I yearn for two ago, if you asked me what I feared most in my life, i most definitely would have said failure or losing a loved one which is very valid. These are fears I had and still have. But today, if you should ask me what my biggest fear is today, it would take me a while to answer. I have actually thought about my answer to this prompt for the whole week and finally, it hit me today. Losing a loved one isn’t really my biggest fear because at the end of the day, everyone of us wild leave this earth and it’s a fact I came to accept long ago. The best I can do now is to make good use of the time I have with everyone I love.
Failure isn’t also my biggest fear because really, fear is a state of mind. I know what I want in this life and I’m not slowing down on it. I’m working day and night to achieve my goals and so the only time failure would be my biggest fear is when I know that I am being lazy and sleeping on my goals which I’m not.
My biggest fear in life currently is the fear of losing my spark. Life comes with its ups and downs and everyday, we face different challenges in life. For so long, I’ve worked and fought hard to be where I am today. I’ve battled with depression and overthinking for years and now that I think I’m finally out of that phase of life, I fear losing myself again. For years, I’ve been in the phase of self discovery and still am. I’ve learnt more about myself, found ways and means to do and be better for myself and those around me and have also learnt to be more self confident, disciplined, self dependent and happy.
People see me all bubbly and wish they were like me but what they don’t know is that I’ve really been through it and it took a lot to get to where I am today. Living happily and being myself. Now, I know not to let anyone take my shine away or make me lose my spark. Because losing your spark has to be the worst thing that would ever happen to anyone.
Today, I want to tell you to be yourself, live your life, love your life and yourself and stay giddy. Don’t lose your spark over anything or anyone.
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I agree with you, fear is a state of our mind. if our mind can be stronger then we overcome fear but if we are weak then we tend to struggle that's why a focused man can achieve anything they attain to
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