Advice

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If there is one thing I know which promote peace and unity, and it also create balance, that thing is advice. Taking myself for example, I do not like people who refused to take advise.

My Dad always told me to listened when applicable, because, I will not hear what he is saying if I refused to listen very well, and truth about it is that, when we listened to a subject, we can rightly go in that direction of the subject without mistake.

And, i think most of the issues leaders are going through, is the fact that, they do not take advise. I mean they just want to do everything all by themselves, and thus go wrong, by not initiating what he/she actually wanted to.

Being a leader does not stop a person from taking advise, it doesn't mean, only the leader should express his expression, but other people as well, also have a hand in making decisions, and, I am sure when things move in this way, peace and unity will be created.

There was a group of people I once belong to few years ago, the motto of the group was to grace people's occasion, and it thus was going well until this guy spoiled the whole fun.

He was a good leader but where he goes wrong was that, he was always on his own authority, up to the point that he was not accepting to another person(s) positive contribution, he claimed to know everything, and when I noticed what was going on.

I withdraw myself, because I was not ready to argue with anybody, or let someone spoiled my vibes.

When the friend who invited me to come in the group saw that i was not showing anymore interest on the group, he came asking, "why, and what I replied him was. "i am not coming to the group or any activities the group are hosting anymore" because, the guy in control don't take advise from others.

He agreed with me that I was right, but he was still interested in the group, because he had an event that was coming in few day's time, and with this I understand with him, I let him knows that I will be available for him on his event day, but I am not coming because of the group, but because he is my friend.

Reaching the event date, it happens that most people who came were not all about the group, but, because of how good was the celebrant.

That was how the group scatter, and people were showing no interest on anything about it.

The deal is, the people trust him/her so much, and that is always why they will want the person to be their leader, and so, it will hurt the people when the leader turn the role of leadership on them, and be acting on his own.

Likewise most country's, they suffers the same thing, and it is so unfortunate, as this went on sometimes to affect a lot of sectors of that country.

Most times, a leader should give listening ear to the people, knows when to delegate, rather than believing he/her is on the mindset of the people.

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