Some of you fellow degenerate crypto characters find my dating insights humorous and insightful and I have noticed a lot of changes the last year or so.
More guys are becoming religious and I'm going to tell you why that is.
Everything men do in this world is for women. To attract them and retain them. If a man's testosterone drops so low this drive can plunge to where he doesn't have the energy to go through the effort of all of this.
The modern women scare the fuck out of your everyday American man who is trying to attract a woman that could even get us hard.
Playing the religion game is one of the only games that is kind of working in 2025 for anything that is sustained even for a little bit.
Not much is working and the situation is getting way worse. Success is all relative and depends what someone is wanting to do but I'm seeing extremely low success from all metrics out there.
Let's just pretend having a positive interaction with an attractive woman and getting her number or connecting with her on Instagram and keeping an ongoing communication channel going was success. WELL IT ISN'T Happening as much as you think even for attractive inshape guys who are in college.
The bars and clubs are largely dying because the conversion wasn't there like it might have been 40 years ago. Now it is more about bringing a chick you maybe matched with on a dating app or essentially setting up the first date at a place like that. There are issues with that because so many people have abandoned the dating apps now.
Tattoo game got blown out because so many people got tattoos it didn't stand out anymore.
The pendulum has swung back to religion game. A lot of American women have turned into these weird bloated blood drinking devil worshipper type chicks so the dudes are running from that and hoping to find the rare woman who doesn't weigh twice as much as them, aren't on anti depression meds, and isn't going to cost an insane amount to keep her around. Trust me, some of these dudes are paying out the ass to keep very borderline chicks around.
It might work for a short amount of time but WHAT'S THE ISSUE?????????
In most situations suddenly you are cock blocked by the rules of the game you are trying to play. Now you are going to meet a chick who wants to wait until marriage to have sex and you realize you are paying out the ass and spending all your time talking to this chick that's all over the place mentally and you are going to keep this up for years potentially to try to figure out how crazy she is and if you go all the way to marriage it doesn't mean she won't pull the plug sometimes in less than a year. I have seen that a lot.
They aren't going to starve and they regularly get bad advice and will throw away the situations they should be in out of fear they will get hurt. So they will be with a guy they can control that they aren't really attracted to. That way she can pray mantis his candy ass. Is every situation like this? Not fully but I wouldn't suggest having your businesses or investments performing poorly or losing your job or taking a nap. Men are a utility to women and if you are taking a nap on the couch have you ever noticed how pissed off women get???? When you are sleeping you aren't of value to her.
This lack of sleep will lower your testosterone and betatize you even more . This is part of the reason I have been able to keep my testosterone levels so high for so long. I sleep until i naturally wake up and don't put up with women waking me up prematurely.
I have tested a lot of strategies and have deployed a lot of variations of game over the years. The time expenditures are huge and you have to cast a VERY large net to end up in the endzone with a chick who is essentially universally hot. The issue with women who are attractive in 2025 are VERY used to getting their way and retaining these women is a very low probability. Hot women usually don't settle until their looks deminish a couple notches.
If you start paying out the ass to keep her around it's precarious because if you were leading with your wallet so hard and were breaking things down monetarily the expendature probably doesn't make sense. What's Bill Belenchick paying per sex session with his 24 year old girlfriend? She reportedly bought 8 million of real estate in her own name. He might be paying $100,000 / session.
Once guys get married it usually gets worse. Then they aren't getting any sex and most of those guys might think I'm winning.
Usually what happens with the women I'm with is the sex will be insane and they are having screaming orgasms and squirting for the first time and all this crazy stuff. Things are fine for weeks or months depending on the frequency. Usually at some point they test their leverage on me and either try to pull away to see if I will chase or see how much they can control me. They get pretty quick that I'm not going to jump out and solve all their issues so a lot of them will choose an easier path and link up with a guy they can control more easily. Then they still watch all my stories on Instagram or Snapchat. Those guys are in a tough position because these chicks don't really respect them. They are only a utility to them.
A few final thoughts on the realizations I have made. Baseball PULLS. Probably half the women that have showed interest in me had some attraction to baseball players or some connection back to baseball in some way. I get type casted for it but it's a double edge sword because all the optimization for athletics and fitness would work better in a world where women in their 20s actually wanted to have kids and wanted those kids to be smart, athletic, and strong. There are too many women who aren't concerned with strong genetics and would rather just have a walking paycheck. When that drys up and she has put in her time she might file for divorce to secure the remaining equity in the properties before the housing market implodes.
The stock out there is getting lower in the United States. 90% of the women are overweight. So many are disqualified that I'm trying to deal with such a small percentage. Even if you lower your standards it doesn't really work because oftentimes those women sort of know that you have no business talking to them. It's the legitimately attractive single moms who are a big problem because they will actually beat out a lot of the other women from a looks perspective but then them being a mom is a hard no for me. That's just not going to be my story.
Who is delusional and who isn't in 2025? It's hard to tell. The hot college volleyball players at some place like UCLA aren't delusional in my mind because any dude would be willing to expend all resources on them if they acted nice and weren't a complete headcase. The amount of attention they are getting tells them they have huge reach and huge influence. We are at a point where even baseline women are getting more attention than any other women in human history.
Whores actually make more than doctors and top athletes.
The game is on hard mode and most women aren't going to be wives. Most men can't invest long term in these women.
Another realization I made from testing is that women in Sweden and in Finland are extremely hot. Way hotter on average than American women. But they look VERY expensive. All designer stuff. Pro tip. You can set Hinge to different locations for free. I was just staring at these women. They are stunning for sure.
I just don't think my game would work in those countries though.
Most guys are going to adjust their game to being heavier with the wallet to try to apply more leverage but I come from a long lineage of cheapskates and if these women aren't impressed with my mushroom hunting skills maybe I don't belong in this timeline.
In the olden days, you would date women to find a wife and start a family.
Three years tops. And your reward was a decent wife.
Now, women want to date and play the field for a decade.
Women want it all, and don't realize they gave everything of worth away.
The juice just isn't worth the squeeze.
On the other note, getting right with God has a lot of internal benefits.
And could be good, as long as the priest isn't cucked.
I even see some of these women playing the dating out for close to 2 decades. Mid to late 30s and still out there bouncing around. I always go back to the Texas chicks I met in Thailand in 2019. They were turning 30 and fast forward to now and all 3 are single, not engaged, or married. I have seen so many of these women always act like there is always someone better and they don't act right or say the right things to ever be in anything. And those are conservative good looking women from Texas. Think of all the women in NYC and California not saying the right things. That's why I say the number of left over women will be far greater than the numbers estimate. On the lower rungs of society I'm seeing more people getting together for at least a short period out of necessity. The attractive college educated women are staying out there almost indefinitely a lot of times. The statistics back that up and they are more likely to file divorces if they do get into something for a short period or decide to do that for the photo opportunity.
As far as the church structures I see a lot of it as another money related setup of people paying into the structure of it and the preacher has to grow the following. I see it with the Christian colleges. Very expensive to go there and they try to create an insulated bubble. People do get together at those places somewhat but also there are tons of the students going through all 4 years single. I have seen that first hand after coaching at a couple of those places.
I personally think the structure of it is often compromised and a lot of single moms try to hang out in churches there to find a new guy to help pay for a lot of their stuff.
I think the game was always somewhat difficult but now the time, money spent, and energy output is far greater in some respects but in other respects not. If we had to hunt and fish all day it's not necessarily easy but now we have to deal with this fraudulent financial system stripping our value away constantly. Now you have to have a license to fish in a river that was there naturally to begin with.
Poor women 😝
They have more than there grandmothers ever had.
And still NEED to have that handbag, or expensive furniture.
A guy can live with a futon and a TV.
Women need their house furnished. (probably the best reason to say for women to stay at home.)
There is another piece that goes with "left over women". The VAXXX. The VAXXX made a lot of women sterile. So, they will never enjoy motherhood, even if they escape the F'inism and try to start a family.
It is going to be a very sad future.
Their wombs are blown out by the Vaxxxx for sure and it's a very big issue. It also leads to more mental instability when they realize guys are passing on them because they got it.
Oh! This sounds rather bad! Things are getting worse on that front. Crazy situations without any nice solutions if those women wouldn’t wake up to confront the harsh reality. Their survivals are also precarious.
Then, depopulation would gather momentum! People will have to marry robots in the future!
Even worse a lot of the women are on anti depression medication, birth control that messes them up, and then they go to therapists who further mislead them. Personally I feel the United States is about 10 years behind Japan in birthrate collapse.
I do believe it will get way worse before things would get better in a lot of respects but it's tough to give advice to anyone dealing with this now.
Personally I think leaving the country is the likely solution because in the United States it essentially becomes way too expensive for what someone would end up with.
People will for sure have life like robot girlfriends and be drugged out to cope with reality.